November 1, 2015

Antoine de Saint-Exupery:

Bit by bit, nevertheless, it comes over us that we shall never again hear the laughter of our friend, that this one garden is forever locked against us. And at that moment begins our true mourning, which, though it may not be rending, is yet a little bitter. For nothing, in truth, can replace that companion. Old friends cannot be created out of hand. Nothing can match the treasure of common memories, of trials endured together, of quarrels and reconciliations and generous emotions. It is idle, having planted an acorn in the morning, to expect that afternoon to sit in the shade of the oak.

e. e. cummings:

i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
                                                      i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart)
Thomas Moore:
…it is important to honor the dead, especially those with whom we have had a close relationship.  The soul is not limited in its experience to the confinements of life.  Death doesn’t erase a relationship, it simply places it in a different context.  Fostering our relationships to the dead gives the soul its nourishment of eternity, melancholy, mystery, and the kind of relatedness that is not literally of this world.  Many, many stories of the soul tell that it is not fully at home in this life and that it is always trying to break the bonds of this world’s limitations.  We can honor the soul by nurturing our relationships with the dead…
Hugh Robert Orr:
They are not gone who pass beyond the clasp of hand, out of the strong embrace.  They are but come so close we need not grope with hands, nor look to see, not try to catch the sound of feet.  They have put off their shoes softly to walk by day within our thoughts, to tread at night our dream-led paths of sleep.
They are not dead who live in hearts they leave behind.  In those whom they have blessed they live a life again.  And shall live through the years eternal life, and grow each day more beautiful as time declares their good, forgets the rest, and proves their immortality.
George Santayana:
With you a part of me hath passed away;
For in the peopled forest of my mind
A tree made leafless by this wintry wind
Shall never don again its green array.
Chapel and fireside, country road and bay,
Have something of their friendliness resigned;
Another, if I would, I could not find,
And I am grown much older in a day.
But yet I treasure in my memory
Your gift of charity and young heart’s ease,
And the dear honour of your amity;
For these, once mine, my heart is rich with these.
And I scarce know which part may greater be —
What I keep of you, or you rob from me.
Edna St Vincent Millay:
I am not resigned to the shutting away of loving hearts in the hard ground.
So it is, and so it will be, for so it has been, time out of mind:
Into the darkness they go, the wise and the lonely. Crowned
With lilies and with laurel they go; but I am not resigned.
Lovers and thinkers, into the earth with you.
Be one with the dull, the indiscriminate dust.
A fragment of what you felt, of what you knew,
A formula, a phrase remains — but the best is lost.
The answers quick and keen, the honest look, the laughter, the love —
They are gone.  They have gone to feed the roses.  Elegant and curled
Is the blossom.  Fragrant is the blossom.  I know.  But I do not approve.
More precious was the light in your eyes than all the roses in the world.
Down, down, down into the darkness of the grave
Gently they go, the beautiful, the tender, the kind;
Quietly they go, the intelligent, the witty, the brave,
I know.  But I do not approve.  And I am not resigned.